An elegant woman isn’t born, she is developed.
Daily, she makes conscious decisions and efforts to instill qualities within herself that contribute to becoming a woman of grace and elegance.
Modern-day elegance, first and foremost, is the way in which a woman believes herself to be within her heart. Therefore, is able to present herself to the world. It’s developed within before it’s ever able to shine for others out.
An elegant woman values her relationship with Jesus and her faith above anything else. She knows her worth because it comes from God alone.
Confidence, gentleness, patience, and kindness are all qualities she upholds.
She values and loves herself.
Daily, she speaks positive affirmations over herself, exercises to mentally, emotionally, and spiritually stay strong. Feeds her soul, mind, body with healthy choices. All these add to her daily routine creating structure, boundaries, and stamina for her busy lifestyle.
She obtains high morals and holds firm to her standards. She speaks honestly, radiates positivity, and consciously speaks honorably.
She knows what she wants in life. And confidently pursues her goals till they are achieved. She handles business and does not partake in drama, but rather condones it. Gossip is not her cup of tea.
She adjusts and readjusts her life to create the life she loves. Staying grateful for each season in her life. For she knows and understands each one benefits her and builds her into the woman she’s meant to be. She understands when she radiates love, purpose, and passion everyone else around her reciprocates.
She stands firmly on subjects she disagrees with, all the while, speaking only words of truth and gentleness to deliver her point of view. She listens to understand verses listens to respond. She acknowledges she is not perfect and sincerely apologizes when she realizes she is in the wrong.
She associates with those who only add value to her life. Uplifting, encouraging, and goal-motivated women are all qualities of her inner circle of friends.
She loves genuinely and always wants the best for people, providing help to others where she can. Understanding we are all a part of a bigger picture.
She respectfully honors her significant other, children, family, and friends the same way she handles herself.
Elegance is something that’s built upon, in your heart you have to be willing to strive for these qualities daily. Every day you will further understand you won’t display perfection but rather your perseverance out ways all your mistakes and stumbles.
Holding to honorable core values, while striving daily to be our best self develops each of us into the elegance we desire.
